Health & Mindset
beginnerEmotional Intelligence: Understanding Yourself and Others
The skill that quietly runs your life โ reading your own emotions, managing them under pressure, understanding other people, and handling the hard conversations that decide your relationships.
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What this course covers
Intelligence and skill get you into the room; emotional intelligence decides what happens once you're there. It's the capacity to recognise what you're feeling and why, to manage your emotions rather than be run by them, to read and understand other people, and to handle relationships and hard conversations well. It shapes your relationships, your work, your leadership, and your peace of mind more than almost anything else โ and unlike IQ, it can be genuinely learned.
This course builds it from the ground up. You'll develop real self-awareness (naming your emotions, knowing your triggers), the ability to manage difficult feelings like anger and anxiety instead of being hijacked by them, genuine empathy for reading and understanding others, and the communication skills to handle difficult conversations, conflict, and difficult people without damage. It goes into the harder places too โ criticism, rejection, old emotional patterns, resentment โ and ends with a plan for lifelong emotional growth.
No pop-psychology fluff, no pretending emotions are simple. Just the learnable skill of understanding yourself and others, which turns out to matter more for a good life than almost anything else you could build.
Curriculum
8 modules, 40 lessons
0m of video
What emotional intelligence is
The skill that quietly decides how your life goes. What emotional intelligence actually is, why it matters more than IQ, and why emotions are information, not enemies.
- Welcome โ the skill that runs your lifeFree preview
- IQ opens doors, EQ walks you throughFree preview
- The four domains of emotional intelligence๐
- Emotions as information, not enemies๐
- Check your understanding๐
Self-awareness
The foundation of everything: recognising what you feel and why. Naming emotions, knowing your triggers, reading your body's signals, and what your feelings point to.
- Naming what you feel๐
- Your triggers and patterns๐
- The body keeps the score๐
- What your emotions point to๐
- Your emotional self-portrait๐
Managing your emotions
From being hijacked to responding wisely: the gap between trigger and response, tools for calming the storm, reframing, and handling anger, anxiety, and sadness.
- The gap between trigger and response๐
- Calming the storm๐
- Reframing and perspective๐
- Managing anger, anxiety and sadness๐
- Check your understanding๐
Understanding others
Turning outward: reading emotions in others, truly listening, taking their perspective, and the difference between empathy, sympathy, and healthy boundaries.
- Reading emotions in others๐
- Listening to understand๐
- Perspective-taking๐
- Empathy, sympathy and boundaries๐
- An empathy practice๐
Relationships and communication
Emotional intelligence in action with others: communicating feelings clearly, handling difficult conversations and conflict without damage, and building trust.
- Communicating feelings clearly๐
- Difficult conversations๐
- Conflict without damage๐
- Building trust and connection๐
- Check your understanding๐
Emotions in the harder places
Where emotional intelligence is tested most: staying regulated under pressure, handling criticism and rejection, emotions at work and in leadership, and difficult people.
- Emotional intelligence under pressure๐
- Handling criticism and rejection๐
- Emotions at work and in leadership๐
- Boundaries and difficult people๐
- A hard-conversation plan๐
The deeper work
Beneath the daily skills: the emotional patterns formed in your past, self-compassion and the inner critic, resentment and forgiveness, and emotional resilience.
- Emotional patterns from the past๐
- Self-compassion and the inner critic๐
- Resentment, forgiveness and letting go๐
- Emotional resilience๐
- Check your understanding๐
A life of emotional wisdom
Bringing it together into a way of living: emotional intelligence in lasting relationships, influencing others, emotions and meaning, and the daily practices of growth.
- Emotional intelligence and relationships that last๐
- Influencing others' emotional worlds๐
- Emotions, meaning and the good life๐
- The daily practices of emotional growth๐
- Your emotional growth plan๐
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